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Handle With Care - FRAGILE</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-07-04T19:25:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/2016/06/27/orlando-obergefell-christ-and-the-church/</loc><lastmod>2016-07-02T21:48:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/2016/06/23/carl-truemans-zero-sum-game/</loc><lastmod>2016-06-28T05:03:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/2016/06/13/in-memoriam/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/13412886_10153542998381496_6505018921931263966_n.jpg</image:loc></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/os-victim-eddie-justice-jpg-20160613.jpg</image:loc></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/screen-shot-2016-06-13-at-2-56-58-pm.png</image:loc></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/2015-08-19-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2015-08-19 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Dyce, "Francesca da Rimini." Based on the story of Paulo and Francesca in Canto V of Dante's Inferno. </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-06-21T14:35:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/2016/06/02/the-lobster/</loc><lastmod>2016-06-03T02:41:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/2016/05/18/desiring-permanence/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/698854.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sunrise view taken by the STS-109 crew</image:title><image:caption>Sunrise view taken by the STS-109 crew aboard the Space Shuttle Columbia.

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Names the 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Leaf</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://spiritualfriendship.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/fall-leaves.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Fall 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icon of Saints Sergius and Bacchus, an example of a pair of same-sex friends venerated in the church. My friend Becca Chapman wrote this for me, and it hangs on my wall as 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Gonnerman and Tushnet are gay and choosing the path of celibacy. 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